Dealing with Downswings part 3
#5 Make good quits: A win is a win
To get your mind right and help you deal with your downswing you need to get some positivity going on. The best way to do this is to make good quits. You’re way more likely to be thinking happy thoughts about poker if you are up 40$ on a session than if you are down $800.
When you feel like you’ve made a bad decision and you’re starting to question yourself it’s a great time to quit. The games will still be there hours from now and there will still be plenty of fish. When you’re in a downswing you have to keep as much positivity as possible, don’t let mistakes compound on themselves. If you catch yourself doing something you know you shouldn’t have, take a break and come back later when you’re feeling sharp again. If you have difficulty walking away, press the power button as soon as you make a big mistake and forget about it, staying and burning money is much worse for your bottom line than quitting when you’re stuck a bit.
I know that your main goal is to get out of this downswing as soon as possible, but you have to take it one step at a time. Put time limits on your sessions, quitting when the clock ticks regardless of how you’re sitting. Be willing to do some hit and run sessions, if you can scoop a buyin or two and go on with your day without the risk of giving it back that’s a win. And be willing to quit even if you’re stuck, it may feel like you’re going the wrong direction if you quit when you’re down but, by continuing to play with the goal of getting even you’re setting yourself up for failure as there is now ay you will be playing your A game.
#6 Don’t Force It: realize that you’re not gonna get out of a downswing overnight
This is when you have to accept reality. You can work your way out of this thing but it’s going to take some time. If you aren’t realistic there’s a good chance you’ll have one winning sessions at which point you’ll remember how awesome you are and decide to load up 24 tables and pump out the hands.
This again is putting yourself in a bad spot. You want to add tables slowly, work back to your limit slowly, and take the wins as they come. Don’t try to force a huge win, just take the small ones and eventually they will total a nice big fat win surrounded with positive thought.
If you try to hard to erase the downswing fast it will feel like a challenge, like a job, and it will make you really not like poker. To get back to your winning ways you have to do everything you can to enjoy the game.
#7 Bring Your A-Game: postive poker mindset
Another thing you should be practicing at all times but isn’t so easy during a dowswing. Only play when you feel like you are on top of your game. Your best chance to succeed is when you’re feeling sharp and looking forward to having some fun playing poker.
Woke up late feeling drowsy? Don’t play
Your team just lost the football game? Don’t play
Just finished a long walk feeling tired? Don’t play
Just ate a massive meal, feeling the ITIS? Don’t play
Just got in a fight with your wife? Don’t play
Feeling tired or upset? Don’t play
Like I said in the beginning of this article, when you are ready to play you’ll know it. Playing anything less than you’re A game is not only a waste of your money, it’s a waste of your time. Be smart and you can work off this downswing in as few hands as possible. The main goal is not just ‘to get out of the downswing’ it’s to play the best poker that you can, and this requires you bringing your A game to the table.
One last point, when I say your A game, I mean YOUR A game; not your best friend’s, not what you just saw on high stakes poker, not what you just saw in the latest gripsed.com video. When you are in a downswing you want to play your game and not try to add new things to it. The first priority is getting comfortable and confident again and the best way to do that is to play your own personal winning style.
#8 Start Learning Again: watch videos, read articles, talk to friends
Once you’re moving in the right direction again, it’s a great time to continue your learning. Take advantages of the resources that are out there like Two Plus Two, talk with your friends, Watch Videos and continue to do what you did just now, reading articles. If you made it this far you are on the right path to getting back on track, so just keep it up!
See You At The Top!
-Gripsed.com
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